Family Dinner & Mini Outfit Update!

I am going for a short hiatus after this blog post because exams is just around the corner. Choir competition as well. Will blog about the competition after the exams which will be the end of May by that time, sobs.  Have been stressing out a lot lately and finally I managed to slip in some blogging time to reduce all the unnecessary stress. 

So, last Saturday, Aunt organized this mini get-together with a few kith and kin to celebrate my Grand Aunt's birthday.  Well, we just ate dinner together, no cakes or gifts lol.  And hence no pictures from the dinner :( All my cousins and my siblings were busy candy crushing :( And the older generation were busy playing with my adorable baby niece <3

So, I have really nothing much to blog about the dinner so I have this idea to talk about my outfit, not that it's really that interesting ;oh well;

xx

Decided to match a black tank to this pair of high waisted floral pants. To keep things simple and neat.  Having too much prints on the body might turn out disastrous, especially if you are going for a mini family dinner D: Don't want to turn out like a peacock instead :P

Wore a pair of pink feather earrings to spice up things a little bit. So things wouldn't be so plain. 

Black Tank Top x High Waisted Floral Print Pants from Bkk 

You'd probably have seen this picture of mine on Instagram if you follow @joyimok.

Loving this shot haha idk why

Bye dearies. 

XOXO

Girl's Talk #1

We can always choose to look at the positive side when things start going downhill.  

Well, I know it is easier said than done. Imagine trying to find a white spot on black paper. Is that possible? Well of course it isn't, but what we can do is we can always use a white color pencil to draw on it.  Use extraordinary ways to solve your extraordinary obstacles in life. As girls, we always pick on ourselves and wonder if we are good enough, whether in front of your friends or even your crush.  Humans were never born perfect.  Our imperfections are what makes us vary from one another.  Just close your eyes and imagine a world filled with perfect people, no flaws.  Woah, pretty impressive right? Well yeah they are robots. :) So, why not embrace our imperfections and look at the brighter side of things.  Things might not be smooth sailing but maybe these will turn out to be life lessons, moulding us into a better person.  The reason to why I am suddenly blogging about this is that life isn't all that smooth sailing for me now either, but I realize I have a lot of wonderful friends being there for me. :) Why not love the ones that already love us so much? Why think about imbeciles being there to trip you over?   These people aren't worth our time at all.  If they want to stay in our lives, true friends will make an effort to do so.  I understand how it feels when you are so confused you tend to make mistakes and worsen the whole situation.  Just pause a while, sit back and reflect on what move you should do next.  It's all up to us to decide.  Our choice. Do not try to rush things as it makes no good.  Do not push all the blame unto yourself, if it's a matter involving two people(or a group). The other people are at fault too. :)

P.S. This is all my opinion and I didn't mean to point at anyone.  We may have different point of views at things.  I have more and more delayed posts but this is what I've been going through lately.  I will try my best to update the blog more frequently.  Any advice is welcomed :)

XOXO

Highlight of Mid Sem Holidays: Tiffany Alvord's Live 2013

Was too busy recently.  Not going to type all that much just because I know that if I start rambling, this post will never end.  So, back to the topic before I stray off course.  

On the morning of the concert, I was all hyped up already! To be honest, it's my first concert with my sister! Sometimes, I really envy my sister for having all these first times at such a young age. Considering she does everything with me although I'm older than her like 2 years. There's obviously no generation/age gap whatsoever so we are really close though we do quarrel all the time haha. 

Was contemplating on what to wear to meet Tiffany Alvord. But in the end I just grabbed whatever I brought with me haha cause we already have to head out and my daddy was nagging already :/ (oopsie!)

Vain like that with Mummy (@ Wedgewood Residence)

We went to Midvalley Megamall/ The Gardens Mall first although we really are kind of broke after all the shopping in KL and Singapore.  Going to blog about the rest of the holidays in the next post because I don't wish to delay this any longer. :)

Lunch :-

Alexis Wine & Dine

It will be weird if we didn't eat here on any occasion cause the food is just too good *drools

Chicken Rice 

Wild Mushrooms are love <3

Hello! Greetings from the hungry blogger!

Tiramisu from Alexis!
You must be wondering why I put my face in the middle of the food pictures, and why not put all food pictures first? Well, they say save the best for the last and THIS is the best! :D

Skipping the dinner part, just cause I forgot what we had and no pictures :( So concert time! :)

The empty stage ( well, not empty, just the stage + instruments)

Was there since 6.30 p.m. so we got pretty good seats! Second row! ^^ And whats the results of boredom?

Ta Da! Just slipped in one picture of me and my sis :P Sister looking so pretty as usual :)

Openings for her concert by fellow Malaysian Youtubers! :)

Skyward! a.k.a Dmingthing :D The guy above also produces YouTube Videos just like JinnyboyTV! Check them out, pretty cool one! XD

The revellers! The drummer is pretty cute! Okay, I admit I always have these thing for drummers :P

Diayan Trisha :)

Finally, the star of the night! <3

Guess who I met after the concert? :P

Reuben Kang! Very cute one leh! Haha
Didn't take any pics with Jin though cause was in a hurry and there was a queue so...

Moving on..

Tiffany Alvord and I <3
We hugged too! Haha just to make you all jealous ny, don't think it succeeded ><

Things I got from her concert! Signed poster and album ^^ With my name on it!

After the concert, daddy bought this Tiramisu cake from the nearby Michaelangelos cafe <3

Tastes super nice! Like theres wine inside there! I love food that tastes bitter a bit one :P Like DARK CHOC OMG LOVES

<3
Topshop, H&M and myself haha

XOXO

Life like this 😐

Have you ever went through times when you are so confused you don't know what to do? Have you ever felt like you are stranded on this island alone with no one to turn to? Like no one truly understands you? Even when you know you are loved by a lot of people, you just can't help being pessimistic and feel that way. Even the brightest and happiest teen will surely have some bad days, just more good days.

Behind that very smile you see each day, there will surely be things to worry about. Happy go lucky? Well, maybe there are people like that but I am sure there will be one day when they will reflect on what happened recently and feel gloomy for a bit.

Sometimes I wonder if I should trust what people tell me. I know I should, but the things said feels wrong. It doesn't feel right. I have this tiny feeling, hoping its true but a big part of me is still in denial mode. Have you ever felt so? It doesn't just relate to me right? I have been thinking pretty much these days. False hopes? Well I don't know. I don't know why you did what you did. And right after, things instantly changed. This is really confusing and I do not know what to grasp. It's not typical. Sigh

I really do not know what to do. What's the next move? How should I respond ? Or should I leave it?

Xoxo